What is Simple Church?

From House2House.com this helpful video gives answers from a variety of men and women who are all experiencing ‘church’ in ways that model on the New Testament in this, the second decade of the 21st Century.

To read more about enjoying fellowship in a non-structured and refreshingly simple way visit ‘Advancing in Life Articles‘ on my ‘The Most Important Thing in the World home site.  If you live in the Waikato and would like to share in fellowship with a group of Bible believing followers of the Lord Jesus who are journeying along this road visit Christians Gathering or go straight to my Contact Center.

2011 in review

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Good with math? Check this…

Are you good with numbers?  Even if you’re not, this is worth checking out.  But, be sure to watch it right through to the end.  It’s worth it.

Discover more about this kind of life.  To spend your days living with any other focus or direction is the ultimate tragedy.  Life is short.  It is over in the blink of an eye.  The smart thing is to ensure eternal life now.  Don’t waste a moment -it may be your last.  If you were topling on the edge of an abyss and I failed to reach out and try to stop you from falling how callous and uncaring I would be.  Yet, if you don’t have the complete assurance of eternal life you are living your life on the edge of death and eternal separation from God for ever and ever.  You at least owe it to yourself to seriously check out the offer of eternal life that has been made available to you personally.  Look on the list of posts on the left hand side and click the second link from the top under ‘Most Important Pages’ titled, ‘Every 18 Minutes and 2 Seconds One New Zealander Dies!‘ or click the link itself right here.  You owe it to yourself.

Sure of Eternal Life? Unsure of Heaven or Hell -are they Real? Check this…

The most important thing in the world is to know that YOU have eternal life.  If you are unsure -check this video.  If you are a believer, this clip from Ray Comfort and Kirk Cameon will help.  For those who are unsure of eternal life -life is short, you don’t know what a day may bring forth, it could be shorter than you think so it makes good sense to ensure you have the assurance of eternal life.  For the believer, the most important thing you can do is share this assurance with all those with whom you come in contact.  This video will help.

Is your ‘Will’ in order?

‘You were redeemed, ‘… with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot…’  1 Peter 1: 19

This post is an extract from, ‘The Life of Faith‘ by John Carlisle and may be read in full at my ‘Most Imporant Thing in the World’ parent site under, ‘Advancing in Life Articles‘ and scrolling down until you see the title of the article.  Alternatively, by clicking the title the entire article will download and disply on your desktop in PDF ready to read. 

 The Lord Jesus shed His precious blood for us on at least seven occasions from the scripture record.  This occasion, in the garden is the first of those.  It is humbling to realise that it was linked to a struggle in the area of the will.  ‘Not my will but thine be done’.  Luke 22: 42.  We know that He always did those things that pleased the Father.  John 8: 29.  We also know that He laid down his life freely and without coercion of any sort.  John 10: 18.  Therefore we can know that this was a struggle made on our behalf.  Just as He ‘was made sin for us who knew no sin’, so He endured the conflict of will between our will and the Father’s will ‘for us’.  Because He endured that conflict, we can appropriate by faith His victory and walk in the Father’s will ourselves without conflict.  I feel we can see a pattern in this order of events.  if He had not endured this agony at the very start of His sufferings on our behalf, the way would not have been made clear for us to make that initial response of faith and trust that results in turning away from ‘our own way’, or our own self-will.  This is clearly seen in Isaiah’s wonderful prophecy concerning the suffering Saviour, ‘All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned everyone to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.’  Isaiah 53: 6.  (Emphasis mine).  This self-will Isaiah plainly calls iniquity.  Iniquity in Isaiah 53: 6 is the Hebrew word avon and is more accurately rendered ‘perversity’.[1]    The Oxford Dictionary gives us this definition, ‘a deliberate desire to behave in an unreasonable or unacceptable way; contrariness’.[2]  What a remarkable insight into the self-will of our old, sinful nature.   The ‘deliberate’ quality reveals the clear direction of the will.  We choose to behave in a manner that is both unreasonable and unacceptable to God.  We have, as Isaiah states so clearly, ‘turned …to our own way’.  It’s our way and not His way.  So, to be redeemed the Lord Jesus had to be ‘made self-willed’ on our behalf.  No wonder the struggle involved Him sweating ‘great drops of blood’.  The agony was beyond comprehension.   ‘He who knew no sin was made [self-willed] for us’.  When we contemplate this we are treading on holy ground.  No wonder C.T. STudd[3], that great missionary to Africa and a former English Test Cricketer was compelled to make his famous statement explaining why he gave up his inheritance and abandoned wealth and prestige for the dark continent, “If Jesus Christ be God and died for me, then no sacrifice that I can make can be too great for me to make for Him’. 

 There, in Gethsemane, the Lord Jesus shed his precious blood so that you and I could be freed from the tyranny of self-will by grace and be saved through faith ‘and that not of ourselves: it is the gift of God’.  Ephesians 2: 8. 


[1] Robert Young’s Analytical Concordance of the Bible, Eighth Edition, United Society for Christian Literature, Lutterworth Press, London, 1939, page 516.

[2] OxfordDictionaries online, URL: http://oxforddictionaries.com/definition/perversity, Accessed 26 November 2011. 

[3] Stephen Ross, Wholesome Words, Wordwide Missions page Missionary Biographies, Charles Thomas (CT) Studd, URL: http://www.wholesomewords.org/missions/biostudd.html, Accessed: 26 November 2011. 

True Bible Based Christianity is Not a System, an Institution or an Organisation…

Christianity may at times be systematic, at times institutionalised and also very organised, yet true Bible based Christianity is, at heart, none of the above.  It is, at its heart, a relationship with a person, Jesus Christ.  We can be even more specific, in fact we have to be because of the simple fact that His name is used by others and they do not refer to the Jesus Christ who was born in Bethlehem, spent a short time in Egypt and grew up in Nazareth and lived and preached in the land of Israel, was crucified, rose from the dead was seen by over 500 people at just one time and finally ascended to that place exterior to the created universe that the Bible refers to as the Heaven of God’s throne.  There, this Jesus Christ that true Christians worship, sat down at the right hand of the Father in the place of supreme power and authority where He reigns over absolutely everything.   He Himself put it this way, “And this is eternal life, that they know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” John 17:3 ESV (English Standard Version).  Every Bible believing follower of this Lord Jesus Christ lives in daily fellowship with Him and with the Father.  A fellowship that is facilited and helped and made real by the third person of the Godhead, the Holy Spirit.  He knows and has experienced what the Bible calls, justification.  This means the believer has received the gift, unearned by his or her own efforts, a full and free pardon for every selfish, evil and unrighteous act they have ever committed.  These evil acts are called ‘sin’ in the Bible.  Sin means simply, the breaking of God’s laws.  God’s laws are His standard of good and right behaviour.  A believer acknowledges that Gods standards are much higher than his own.  Believers know that however good he or she may try to be, their best efforts will always be like a dull grey when seen beside His pure and spotless white.  Therefore, they have placed their absolute trust and confidence in His offer to exchange their best efforts for His perfect righteousness.  This simple act of faith, without the need to try to earn His approval by working hard at being good is what has made them true Christians.  They have experienced Ephesians 2: 8-9, ‘For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.’  KJV (Emphasis mine).   From that point on they live with one thought in mind, to please Him.  ‘…so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.’ Colossians 1:10  ESV.  They are not earning their salvation, they are proving it in daily life by the way they live, exactly as that last verse says, they seek to ‘walk in a manner worthy of the Lord’, and to please Him to the very best of their ability knowing that to do that they need His help every minute of every day.  That means that they live for Him in the same way they came to know Him, by faith.  They know that the only thing that will please God is sincere faith and trust in Him and in His help and provision.  It never has one tiny little thing to do with how well they may or may not do.  That’s why the ultimate reward of the believer is summed up by the Lord Himself in these words, ”Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’  Matthew 25:23 ESV.  Note that the reward is for ‘good’ and ‘faithful’ service.  Not how much, or how great.  Note also, the ‘goodness’ of the faithfulness is based on the fact that it is faithfulness that is the important thing.  We could say the believer is good because he’s faithful and he’s faithful because he’s good.  The one flows from the other.  Where does the goodness come from?  Answer, from the Lord.  It is always His goodness and His merit.  It’s never ours in any way shape or form.  That’s why it is ‘by grace through faith’.  That’s why the believer cannot help but rejoice in the Lord all the time. 

Now I’d like to add a wonderful meditation from a brother in Christ, Kirk Cameron whose devotionals always bless me and this one I felt to take the liberty of quoting. 

“Christianity has not only a circumference, it has a center. It has not only a system, but a person. It has not only a redemption, but a Redeemer. What a difference between casting ourselves on a system, however beautiful, and on a tender, loving, compassionate Saviour! What a difference between a system of divine principles, and a throbbing bosom on which we may lean, and feel every burden lightened, every pressure relieved, every sorrow softened! This is what man needs. This is what he will need above everything, when the hour of sorrow, or the hour of death, draws near. Oh, what are systems then, however beautiful, in comparison with the calm consciousness that the arm of Omnipotent Love is thrown around us! They are all but as the small dust of the balance–the foam, the dust, the shadow, the air!”
~ F. Whitfield

When I come to die, don’t give me systems, doctrines, leaky promises, or lucky rabbits’ feet. Give me Jesus and nothing else. He is all I need.
~ Kirk

Thank you, Kirk.  That’s just great.
 

Will There Be A Second Chance For Salvation After Death?

No Second Chance!

The Most Important Thing in the World is to Know You Have Eternal Life. 
It is so very important you are sure of this now. 
Please read this article that answers the secondary queston many people have in their minds, ‘Will There Be A Second Chance For Salvation After Death?’  This article is sourced from GotQuestions.org, a great source of answers to questions about the Bible and Christianity.  The link is at the end of the article.

While the idea of a second chance for salvation is appealing, the Bible is clear that death is the end of all chances. Hebrews 9:27 tells us that we die, and then face judgment. So, as long as a person is alive,he has a second, third, fourth, fifth, etc. chance to accept Christ and be saved (John 3:16; Romans 10:9-10; Acts 16:31). Once a person dies, there are no more chances. The idea of purgatory, a place where people go after death to pay for their sins, has no biblical basis, but is rather a tradition of the Roman Catholic Church.

To understand what happens to nonbelievers after they die, we go to Revelation 20:11-15 which describes the Great White Throne judgment.  Here takes place the opening of the books and “the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.” The books contain all the thoughts and deeds of those being judged, and we know from Romans 3:20 that “by the works of the Law is no flesh justified.” Therefore, all who are judged by their works and thoughts are condemned to hell. Believers in Christ, on the other hand, are not judged by the books of works, but their names are found written in another book—the “Lamb’s Book of Life” (Revelation 21:27). These are the ones who have believed on the Lord Jesus, and they alone will be allowed to enter heaven.

The key to understanding this is the Lamb’s Book of Life. Anyone whose name is written in this book was “saved before the foundation of the world” (Ephesians 1:4) by God’s sovereign saving grace to be part of His Son’s bride, the church of Jesus Christ. These people need no “second chance” at salvation because their salvation has been secured by Christ. He chose us, He saved us, and He will keep us saved. Nothing can separate us from Christ (Romans 8:39). Those for whom He died will be saved because Jesus will see to it. He declared “all that the Father has given me will come to me” (John 6:37), and “I give to them eternal life, and they shall never ever perish, and not anyone shall pluck them out of My hand” (John 10:28). For believers, there is no need for a second chance because the first chance is sufficient.

What about those who do not believe? Wouldn’t they repent and believe if they were given a second chance? The answer is no, they would not because their hearts are not changed simply because they die. Their hearts and minds “are at enmity” against God and won’t accept Him even when they see Him face to face. This is evidenced clearly in the story of the rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16:19-31. If ever someone should have repented when given a second chance to see clearly the truth, it was the rich man. But although he was in torment in hell, he only asked that Abraham send Lazarus back to earth to warn his brothers so they didn’t have to suffer the same fate. There was no repentance in his heart, only regret for where he found himself. Abraham’s answer says it all: “And he said to him, If they do not hear Moses and the Prophets, they will not be persuaded, even though one rose from the dead” (Luke 16:31). Here we see that the witness of the Scriptures is sufficient for salvation for those who believe it, and no other revelation will bring about salvation to those who do not. No second, third or fourth chances would be enough to turn the heart of stone into a heart of flesh. Philippians 2:10-11 declares “that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” One day, everyone will bow before Jesus and recognize that He is the Lord and Savior. At that point, though, it is too late for salvation. After death, all that remains for the unbeliever is judgment (Revelation 20:14-15). That is why we must trust in Him in this life.

Source: GotQuestions.org.  This link will take you directly to the article at GotQuestions.

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Apologetics Press – Exclusivism and Christ’s Church

 Another cracker from Apologetics Press which I am compelled to share.  Thank you, Dave Miller.  Great stuff. 

Just a comment before you read from myself about the use of the word church -something which touches on a deep concern and burden in my own heart.  For my part I have an ever increasing resistance to the use of the English word ‘Church’, even more so when it has the capital letter!  The word carries so much baggage -and with every tick of the clock it gets worse, I fear.  Of course, ‘church’ is not the only transliteration that causes and has caused confusion.  I will avoid listing some of the more offensive and troublesome ones as I simply want to make a point about this one, ‘church’.  The word most often translated ‘church’ in the New Testament is ‘ekklesia’ from ‘ek’, ‘out of’, and ‘klesis’, ‘a calling’ in the sense, most often, of ‘out of’.  There are some good English words to use that render the sense far better than this rather unfortunate word ‘church’ which means who knows what?  The better words in English are, ‘assembly’, congregation’, gathering (my personal favourite).  There are two or three others but they are incidental.  For our purpose here, the word is ‘ekklesia’ and may be simply understood as a gathered group called out from the world and into fellowship.  First, that fellowship is with ‘The Father and with His Son Jesus Christ’. 1 John 1:3.   Then it is with every other person who has also been ‘called out’ and into fellowship with the Father and the Lord Jesus and has placed their faith and trust in Christ as saviour. 

One thing to be very clear about in the gatherings of believers and followers of Jesus Christ is that there is no hierarchy, ‘we are all brethren’, no institutionalism’ in the sense we see it in every ‘church’ and denominational structure extant in the world today, is or should be, part of this wonderful, simple and organic creation of Christ.  There are certainly genuine Bible believing followers of the Lord Jesus in many of these creations of human invention, but the organisation and the structure and the offices and authorities we see in them are not part of the ekklesia of Christ.  They are sad and unfortunate impositions made upon the often long suffering body of Christ.  The gatherings of Christ are simply gatherings of believers and followers in fellowship together sharing and caring and edifying one another under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit who is the Spirit of Christ.  This is the ekklesia triumphant.  This is the ‘mystery of godliness’ as opposed to the mystery of ‘iniquity’ of which the institutional church has allowed itself to be captured and deceived.  Meditate on these things and allow the Word of God to guide you into all the truth concerning these things.  Remember, that ‘Christ loved the ekklesia and gave Himself for it’.  Ephesians 5:25. It’s his most precious creation and possession.  If you love the Lord Jesus you will want to foster the ‘…His bodies sake, which is the ekklesia…’ (Ephesians 1:24) above everything and especially your own habitual ideas of what truly constitutes the body of Christ.  You might like to read more of my thoughts in this direction.  You can find them here: http://www.jbc.gen.nz/important/articles.htm.  Scroll down until you see the free booklet titled, ‘Why Gather?’.   

In the mean time, I commend to you,

Exclusivism and Christ’s Church

by 
Dave Miller, Ph.D.

Churches of Christ (Romans 16:16) have long been demonized for their insistence that all peoples are required to render obedience to the God of heaven, and that this obedience means that people must not tamper with God’s Word by inventing new churches, doctrines, creeds, and religions. They have insisted that the Bible depicts for humanity the religion of God, i.e., New Testament Christianity. Catholicism, Protestant denominationalism, and the plethora of manmade churches that have sprung up over the centuries are departures from “the faith” (1 Timothy 4:1). They have maintained that it is possible—and necessary—for a person to go back behind all denominational creeds and affiliations, and to be simply a New Testament Christian, a member of the New Testament church.

This biblical posture has brought down upon members of churches of Christ a great deal of abuse, ridicule, and antagonism. The revulsion manifests itself in such accusations as: “You think you’re the only ones going to heaven.” Especially with the massive shifting that has taken place in American culture in the last 50 years, with “political correctness” and the “I’m Okay, You’re Okay” mentality having thoroughly saturated national consciousness, anything that smacks of “exclusivity” is immediately demeaned and dismissed as “intolerant,” “mean-spirited,” “judgmental,” and even “a cult.” This mindset has literally infiltrated and infected most Americans. Take, for example, the following statement regarding the name for the church of the Bible:

The truth is that the name “Church of Christ” carries the baggage of an exclusivistic mentality to many people in our culture. “Oh, yeah,” somebody says, “those are the people who think they’re the only ones going to heaven.” One lady said that she never would have come into our building if she had known we are a “Church of Christ.” Once she came in and experienced the presence of God in this body, however, she isn’t about to leave! She and her children—from a very different denominational background—are reveling in the experience of Christ in this community of faith (Shelly, 1998, emp. added).

What does it mean to be “exclusivistic”? The dictionary definition of “exclusive” is “excluding or tending to exclude; not allowing something else; incompatible; not divided or shared with others; not accompanied by others; single or sole; excluding some or most, as from membership or participation” (American…, 2000, p. 620). A simple perusal of the New Testament reveals that the church of the New Testament is the church of Christ. He built her (Matthew 16:18). He gave Himself for her (Ephesians 5:25), and purchased her with His own blood (Acts 20:28). He loves her, nourishes her, and wishes to maintain her holy, unblemished nature (Ephesians 5:25-27,29). Christ’s church is not to be equated with the denominational churches that mere humans have established. This is where the name for the church becomes an important factor. Christ’s church will wear His name. Granted, a church may wear His name and claim to be His church when, in fact, it is not. But a church that identifies itself by some denominational designation that draws attention away from the founder (i.e., Christ) to some point of doctrine or lesser spiritual aspect cannot rightly be said to be His church.

Alas, such reasoning is almost universally rejected in today’s permissive climate of indiscriminate acceptance and toleration. Certainly, to suggest that there is “one church” (Ephesians 4:4a), and that every accountable person is obligated to submit to Christ’s plan of salvation in order to be added to that one church, is to be guilty of “exclusivism.” That is the very nature and essence of truth; it is narrow and exclusionary. But is there any indication elsewhere in the Bible that God’s will is exclusive? Does the Bible teach that the correct approach to life and religion is, in actuality, very narrow, rigid, and restrictive? Does the Bible endorse the current climate of toleration, acceptance, and openness?

Consider one brief illustrative incident. At the very beginning of human history, God placed the first man and woman in a beautiful garden paradise. He gave them wide latitude in exercising their own discretion with regard to daily dietary decisions (Genesis 2:16). However, He placed upon them one restriction: they were to refrain from eating the fruit from one particular tree (Genesis 2:17). Satan took issue with this restriction, and urged Eve to do the same (Genesis 3:4-5). She succumbed to his prodding, and to her own fleshly appetites, and ate of the fruit, encouraging her husband to do likewise. The result? Sin was introduced into the world, and the first family was changed forever and permanently banished from the beautiful garden. Question: was the restriction placed upon Adam and Eve by God exclusivistic? That is, did His instructions to them “not allow something else”? Were God’s directives “incompatible” with what Eve wanted to do? Was God’s command “not divided or shared with others” and “not accompanied by others”? Was God’s “my way or the highway” attitude inappropriate? To ask is to answer.

You “do the math.” Check out instance after instance, example after example in the Bible from beginning to end. Apply the definition of “exclusive” to each biblical account in order to determine if, in fact, God’s requirements are “exclusivistic.” Examine the cases of Cain and Abel (Genesis 4:1-8), Noah (Genesis 6:22), Abraham (Genesis 26:5), Moses (Exodus 17:6; Numbers 20:7-12), Nadab and Abihu (Leviticus 10:1-3), the Israelites (Numbers 14:20-23; 21:4-9; Joshua 6; 9:14; 1 Samuel 8), Eli (1 Samuel 3:13), Saul (1 Samuel 13:11-14; 15), King David (1 Samuel 21:1-6; 2 Samuel 11; 24), Uzzah (2 Samuel 6:6-7; 1 Chronicles 15:13), Jereboam (1 Kings 12:26-33), Samaria (2 Kings 17:7ff.; 18:12), Josiah (2 Kings 22:13ff.), King Uzziah (2 Chronicles 26:16-21), the Jews who returned from exile (Ezra 9-10), Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5:1-11). The inevitable, indisputable conclusion to which the honest heart is driven is that God’s instructions to humans have always been exclusivistic.

Make no mistake: no human and no church have a “corner on truth.” Gospel salvation is available to all: “For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men” (Titus 2:11); “And the Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ And let him who hears say, ‘Come!’ And let him who thirsts come. Whoever desires, let him take the water of life freely” (Revelation 22:17). God decides who will be saved and who will be lost. However, He has given us His Word to inform us as to His will and His decisions. He says that He wants everyone to be saved (1 Timothy 2:4). He says that He does not want even one person to perish in hell (2 Peter 3:9). But He also says that most people will spend eternity in hell (Luke 13:23-24). He is most certainly inclusive in that He offers salvation to all without partiality. But He is equally exclusive in that he requires a proper response of obedience to His directives (John 14:15).

We would do well to jettison our petty jealousies, pride, and political loyalties, devote ourselves to ascertaining the precise parameters of God’s directives, and then focus on conforming to His will—“bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5). He is “the author of eternal salvation unto all them that obey Him” (Hebrews 5:9). There are only two possible courses in life: “sin unto death, or obedience unto righteousness” (Romans 6:16). Jesus Himself declared that the former approach to life is “wide” and “broad,” and that most people go that direction (Matthew 7:13). He also stated that the latter approach is “strait” and “narrow” (i.e., exclusivistic!), and few people muster the gumption to confine themselves to that rigid, strict course (Matthew 7:14; Luke 13:23-24). Faithful Christians will remain undaunted when demonized as “exclusivistic,” since they are merely teaching and advocating that which God instituted. After all, an objective appraisal of the Bible reveals that Jesus, Himself, was an exclusionist. God is, in reality, the God of exclusivism!

REFERENCES

American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language(2000), (Boston, MA: Houghton Mifflin), fourth edition.

Shelly, Rubel (1998), “What Is Your Church’s Name?” Lovelines, 24[5], February 4.


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Christianity Is All About Relationships

Another brilliant blog from J. Lee Grady.  I can only say a hearty ‘Amen’.  Thank you J.

Christianity Is All About Relationships

Wednesday, 14 September 2011 09:57 AM EDT J. Lee Grady Newsletters - Fire In My Bones

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Jesus called us into friendship, not just with Him but also with His followers.

I don’t like goodbyes, especially on the mission field, because sometimes I get emotional. Last week it was really bad.

I had spent six days with a church in Tarapoto, Peru, and I invested a lot of time and energy encouraging the people—especially some young adults who are emerging leaders. When it was almost time for me to go through the security checkpoint at the airport, about 18 of these men and women burst through the lobby doors and gathered around me and my translator, Diego.

“Christianity, at its core, is about relationships. Unlike Eastern religions—in which individuals seek a solitary, Zen-like state to discover truth—Christianity calls us to follow God as a loving community.”

I lost it. I tried to walk around the circle to say goodbye to each person: Giancarlos, Jhor, Dalia, Juanita, Roberto, David, Cristian, Clavela, Rays. Each time somebody hugged me I sobbed. I was a slobbering mess by the time I hugged the last brother, Enrique.

People in the airport were staring at us, but that wasn’t the painful part. My heart was being ripped out of my chest.

When I got to my seat on the airplane and gained composure, I realized this is a normal part of Christianity. Our gospel flows from the heart. Our faith is based on the astounding truth that a loving God came to earth to repair our broken relationship with Him. And since then God has sent people across oceans and mountain ranges to tell others about His love. They have often had to endure painful goodbyes.

Christianity, at its core, is about relationships. While the Bible certainly contains theology, it is not a book of dry doctrines. It is a dramatic account of men and women who learned to love each other as they followed God. Unlike Eastern religions—in which individuals seek a solitary, Zen-like state to find truth—Christianity calls us to follow God as a loving community.

Jesus modeled this message by investing time in His disciples. He didn’t float around on a pillow like Yoda while dispensing otherworldly wisdom. He hiked through Israel with His friends. They got their feet dirty together. He fished with them, ate with them and just hung out with them.

Mark 3:14 says Jesus appointed the twelve “so that they would be with Him and that He could send them out to preach.” Notice that His relationship with them was not just about the task of ministry. He wanted their fellowship!

We sometimes get this backwards. We tend to value religious performance, yet we are often bankrupt when it comes to friendships. We sit together in countless meetings but never open our hearts to each other. Even ministers have admitted to me that they have no friends. We’ve created a robotic, programized Christianity that counts heads but lacks the heart of New Testament love.

I’ve had enough of this sterile religion. I’ve learned that ministry is not about getting big crowds, filling seats, tabulating response cards or eliciting raucous applause. It’s not about running on the church-growth treadmill. Religion that focuses on externals is performance-based.

How would you assess your friendship with God? Intimate? Professional? Distant? Cold? And what about your relationships with others? Do you have close friends? Or do you live out your faith in solitary confinement?

I tell Christians all over the world that they need three kinds of relationships in their lives:

1. “Pauls” are spiritual fathers and mothers you trust. All of us need older, wiser Christians who can guide us, pray for us and offer counsel. My mentors have encouraged me when I wanted to quit and propeled me forward when I had lost sight of God’s promise. In the journey of faith, you do not have to feel your way in the dark. God gave Ruth a Naomi and Joshua a Moses. Ask the Lord for a mentor.

2. “Barnabasses” are spiritual peers who are bosom friends. They know everything about you, yet they love you anyway. They are also willing to kick your tail if necessary! They provide accountability in areas of personal temptation. And they will stay up all night praying for you when you face a crisis.

3. “Timothys” are the younger Christians you are helping to grow. Jesus never told us to assemble crowds, but He did command us to make disciples. Relational discipleship takes a lot of time and energy, but investing your life in others is one of the most fulfilling experiences in life. Once you have poured your life into another brother or sister, and watched them mature in Christ, you will never settle for superficial religion again.

Jesus said it best when He told His followers: “No longer do I call you slaves … but I have called you friends, for all things I have heard from My Father I have made known to you” (John 15:15). The Christian life is a vibrant, love relationship with God—but it doesn’t end there.  I pray you will open your heart and invest in the people around you.

J. Lee Grady is contributing editor of Charisma. You can follow him on Twitter at leegrady. His most recent book is 10 Lies Men Believe (Charisma House). Below is a photo of the young leaders who said goodbye to Lee on Sept. 7 at the airport in Tarapoto, Peru.

Christianity Is All About Relationships

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